Musings||To forgive or not to forgive?

Hi readers,
I hope you all had a lovely week and achieved something positive..the weekend is here and I am particularly very excited because it’s my  birthday tomorrow, and I’m doing it big! 😀 (yay!) . OK before I forget why I’m here let me get to the point.

I woke up this morning and I thought to myself, if someone constantly hurt me and made me feel like crap, would I revenge, or make that person feel equally unwanted or useless??

Frankly, I wouldn’t know what to do, but let me say this: I have (like everyone else) been through a lot with people,and I have been in situations where I had the opportunity to make someone feel horrible for what he/she did to me. But I always thought to myself – what will I gain from taking revenge, how would I feel if I did something wrong to someone (intentionally or not) and the person decided to revenge?

Sometimes before we take actions,we have to really sit and think “is it really worth it?”
Anger is a really terrible thing and we all know that in the heat of anger, anything could happen. When I was little, my granny (RIP) always told me to count 10 seconds before I do anything or say anything. I think that has really helped me in some way, because I have grown to realise that there are so many circumstances I could have put myself in but I didn’t because of that little 10 second count.
No one is perfect, but I think the world would be so much easier if we learned to forgive, and also learned to live in peace with other people. It’s always easier to be happy and always try to be as ‘civilised’ as possible.
I don’t know if I reached the point I was aiming for, but I hope I have been able to inspire someone today.
“Think before you take actions”

Have a lovely week ahead. Love!


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