DEAR GUYS : THESE ARE THE 5 SIGNS THAT SHE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU 

You’re either the exception or the rule.” 

Dear guys, hello to you all!

This post is for you lot that visit my site but can never really find any content that relates to you in particular.

Now, I got this suggestion from a male friend to put this up because sometimes it’s not really straightforward with us girls. Especially if you have been chasing a girl for a long time and still haven’t gone round to getting her. You keep wondering what the problem could be.

Here’s 5 ways you can definitely tell that she’s just not into you :

1. SHE DOESN’T CALL OR TEXT YOU

Have you ever seen a girl in love, or one who has a crush on some guy? It’s like, everything about the guy becomes her number one priority. She will call you 24/7, text you about everything she does and even updates you on information you probably don’t need to know about. So if she doesn’t do that at any point, she’s probably not into you like that.

2. HER BODY LANGUAGE IS DIFFERENT

Now I know that when a girl likes a guy, she will constantly hug him, touch his arm or even play with his hair. If she always stays at a distance when talking to you, gives you a handshake at most or even quick, side hugs, then, she’s probably not that into you. Plus, if you’re talking to her and she isn’t making eye contact, she just keeps looking away, then she’s either too shy or disinterested. I’d pick disinterested because I believe eye contact is very important in making conversations no matter how shy you are.

3. YOU CAN NEVER CATCH HER ALONE

Haha, “you can never catch her alone”. Seems like she’s a fish you’re trying to catch but she keeps mocking you like Lenny in “shark tale” in the beginning of the movie.

Okay, I’m diverting. But the point is, if a girl likes you, she will want to spend alone time with you, get to know you better and all of that. So you can imagine if you ask her out on a date and she keeps bringing a friend, or two. My brother, she probably doesn’t like you like that.

4. YOU KEEP STAYING IN THE FRIEND ZONE

If she keeps stressing how much good friends you are, and how she loves a friend like you, chances are that she’s probably not looking to date you. This doesn’t mean that she doesn’t like you as a person though, it’s just that you are that the platonic force in her life, which isn’t so bad if you ask me. I don’t know why guys hate the friend zone so much.

5. SHE FREAKS OUT AT THE THOUGHT OF ANY COMMITMENT OR FUTURE PLANS

If she keeps flaking on movie dates and plans on spending a holiday together for instance, it could mean she’s not ready for that type of commitment with you. As a friend you can hang out casually but when you make exclusive plans for both of you and you catch her changing the subject or isn’t really as excited, that could mean she isn’t looking to date you.Of course, there could be genuine reasons why she may not want to do these things. For instance, she might not be financially capable of the holiday plans yet. So don’t be quick to conclude on this.


So guys, these are the signs I think you should look out for, if you’re trying to court a lady and you’re a bit confused about where you stand.

Notwithstanding though, a girl could show these signs and still be into you, you know we can be confused at times haha

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  1. It’s never fun to be the person who likes some one who doesn’t like them back! That was the story of most of my high school/post college life lol. But, I have been in a relationship for over 3 years now. When it’s meant to be it just will! I’m so glad to be out of the dating field lol 🙂

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  2. Haha, I love it. These seem so obvious to us ladies, but the men don’t always pick up on it. That being said, I’m a believer in being direct on both sides too! Men need to speak up and so do women, just to clear things up! 🙂

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  3. These are soooo true. i know lots of guys who just can’t seem to pick up on signs even when they’re flashing and neon! Going to subtly point a few people in the direction of this article!!

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